Feeling Sad About Giving Up Porn (It's Hard To Let Go)
Are you feeling sad about giving up porn?
And no you wonder why or if there is something you can do about it.
Well, sit down for a while and we'll take a look at this.
It'll be good for you...
Feeling Sad About Giving Up Porn (It's Hard To Let Go)
Guys, I'm going to share something that you may or may not have heard, and at first glance, it's going to sound okay to most of you, I guess.
But I wish that you really give it some thought because it's actually much deeper than what you'd first think.
So, many guys keep relapsing simply because of the fact that they have not been able to let go of the porn.
And so now, you say, 'Oh well, no shit Sherlock,' and hey, hey, it gets deeper here.
Listen up...
By letting go, I mean most of you want to give up the porn, but you have still not fully accepted the idea of never going back.
You have not yet fully accepted that your hose will never ever again be full of hot babes...
Some small part of you still thinks that there will be a sexual utopia out there for you. And here comes the deal.
Now, so listen up. It is 100% true that for most guys, and there are always exceptions, but for most guys, it becomes significantly easier to connect with girls after embarking on a NoFap journey.
And some guys even get amazingly good with women.
By quitting porn you actually get better with women...real women, that is...
And I'm not going to talk about what kind of goals you should have or whether I think it's a good idea or not. That's a subject for another video.
But just for the sake of my argument here, even if you were to become the world's best pickup artist, the truth is that reality will never, ever be able to match all the novelty of today's porn tube sites.
I mean, just think about it. You have thousands of women there and hundreds of categories, and you switch between them by clicking, having multiple tabs open, fast forwarding, dopamine on demand with the click of a mouse.
Click, click, click...
Reality simply cannot match that level.
Even with social anxiety you've had your sexual utopia - And now it's hard to let go...
Now, listen to this...
This means that even if you've been locking yourself inside your house with social anxiety as a guy who has been using a lot of porn, you've already had your perfect sexual utopia.
And from now on out, no matter how good you get with women, you will never get it back.
And it is this, my friend, it is exactly this that so many guys simply have yet to learn how to fully accept. Because if you cannot fully come to terms with that, the risk of you falling back to porn relapses will be so much higher.
Porn has been a reliable source of dopamine for you...
And the thing is, it can be hard to accept this because, let's face it, no matter what opinion you have about porn today, it has still been giving you a lot of dopamine.
And anything that can do that can also be used as a way to try to cope with your day-to-day problems, a very unhealthy way in this case.
But instant dopamine activities are and will always be used as comforting behaviors by people who want to escape for a moment.
So much pleasure history...
So, this can be a hard thing to let go of, and many guys don't even want to accept it because, let's face it, there is so much pleasure-induced dopamine history there.
But guys, if you come to terms with the idea of letting it all go, oh man, I'm sure you can think of things in your life that you first felt resistance to, but then at some point, you accepted it and you let it go.
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When you finally let go, it's feels like a relief...
And if you think back on it, then in that very instance, from there on out, it kind of felt like a relief, didn't it?
No, I admit that it took me a long time to get to this point where I fully can let go of it. It wasn't easy, but today I seriously believe that I'm there, and it feels great. Okay, okay.
So honestly, there are several ways of quitting an addiction, and I'm sure you can get there with the traditional 'just take one day at a time' way of thinking as well.
But if you think like that, then you haven't fully accepted the idea of letting it go.
The freedom from porn feels nothing short of amazing...
And I'm telling you, guys, once you fully, and I mean really, with all parts of you, decide to let it go, oh man, the freedom you feel is nothing short of amazing.
Guys, if you haven't downloaded my free quitting porn guide, I need to let you know that you can still get it by using the link under the video.
Also, have you seen the video I posted six months ago where I share a NoFap graph with dopamine cravings that shows exactly when you get the most dangerous urges?
No?
Well, if not, you should do so now because it's super interesting and very helpful as well. You can see that post right here => NoFap graph with dopamine cravings
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