Have you heard about the term "hardmode"? when it comes to giving up porn and NoFap?

Well, today I'm going to talk a bit more about this "NoFap hardmode" mentality.

Let's begin...

NoFap Hard-Mode

As you know, guys like to invent different terms out there and that’s certainly also the case when it comes to NoFap.

Personally I don’t like these terms for many reasons, because...

First, well it’s your life and you should come up with your own rules!

Second, well...maybe I’ll spare you my personal opinion here and let’s jump into the subject of today.

NoFap Easy mode vs NoFap hard mode vs NoFap soft mode...

If you didn’t know, many guys out there refer to NoFap easy mode or soft mode as to no adult sites and no pleasuring Yourself, but you can be intimate with real life people. 

NoFap hard mode means the same, but here you can’t even be intimate with anyone.

Now, don’t get upset with the title of the video, I’m not against hardmode as a concept, in fact I think hardmode has its strengths and it can certainly be great for many of you. 

It’s the name NoFap hard mode itself that I don’t like…

Look, so those of you who have followed me for a while know that I like the staying away from adult sites part, because, well as a former addict myself I have zero tolerance for adult sites, for the rest of my life and I’ll never go back to those, so I fully support that part. 

I do also use retention to my advantage, but that one I do in cycles. 

In my experience, NoFap hardmode is not the best long term...for me!

As far as not being intimate, sure I’m personally on complete abstinence, or call it hardmode, from time to time in periods in my life.

But I’m certainly not playing that game all the time, or for the rest of my life, because I know that’s not what’s best for me.

And when I’m not in such a period, the only thing I personally would consider a relapse would be watching porn, because again, I’m never going back to that.

It up to you what 'mode' you want to do...

However, I am supportive if you want to do retention all the time, because, again, your life your rules. And hey, I certainly have a lot of respect for those who want to be completely celibate for life as well. 

As you can see, I don’t like categories, as I’m all for the rules of the individual, but what I especially hate is the name Hardmode in and of itself, because it automatically makes you focus on the wrong things. 

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The name NoFap hardmode makes you think about it from the wrong angle...

Ok, so you can’t squeeze your brains out to adult sites in front of your laptop  and right now you can’t be intimate with someone, big deal.

Have you ever thought about what you can do? 

There are literally millions of things you can do while doing NoFap hardmode.

You can...

• Eat a good meal
• Work on your goals
• Go to the bank
• Swim
• Dance
• Lift weights
• Pet a ca
• Say hello to a stranger
• Write a book
• Sleep on your stomach
• Drink coffee
• Play football
• Video games
• Poker
• Learn a new language
• Start a YouTube channel
• Brush your teeth
• Play a musical instrument, badly
• Sing in the rain...
• *Sigh* 

You get my point,it’s called life.

NoFap hardmode is just living your life!

Don't stare yourself blind on what you can't do...

Yet, so many guys stare themselves so blind on what they can’t do that they totally forget that, hey, there is actually a world out there, And that there is such a thing as participating in it.

Now, by that I don’t mean that they should relapse, no no no no, you shouldn’t relapse. But that they need to be careful with things like for example putting their lives on hold until they reach a certain number of days. 

And I talk more about exactly what can happen if you do that, in this the article right and if you haven’t seen it you should do so now because you might discover something quite disturbing.

Thanks for reading,

Scandinavian Bob

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