Porn Makes Real Life / Girls Boring (Can it make you lose interest?)
Porn Makes Real Life And Real Girls Boring
Are you wondering if porn makes real life girls seem boring?
Or perhaps a better way to put it, if porn can make you lose interest in real life girls?
Well, if so, this video is for you. Because today we are going to talk about something called supernormal stimulus, and how if can affect you.
Stay with me here...
Allow me to introduce, Ben the beetle
This is Ben the beetle.
Ben is a normal beetle and he is quite busy running around doing important beetle stuff. But most of all he wants to find someone to mate with.
Ben has pretty high standards so his girlfriend needs to be shiny. She needs to have dimples and she has to be big and beautiful.
You see, in the insect world the female is often much bigger than the males.
So, then one day Ben is out in the woods doing some important beetle business when he suddenly sees Betty the beetle standing there looking all fine and shiny.
Ben the beetle gets attracted to Betty the beetle...
Oh my God, Ben is approaching her slowly, thinking this is going to be awesome,and best of all, Becky seems to be interested too.
But when Ben gets a little closer he sees something even more interesting.
Whohoh wow!
There something even shiner and even bigger here and it has even bigger dimples, hohohohoo!
Ben forgets about Betty when he sees a super shiny beer bottle...
And Ben constantly forgets all about Becky and starts mating with an empty beer bottle that someone has thrown away.
The sad thing is that Becky actually lives right under a rock right there beside the beer bottle, and she can hear Ben coming back day after day, doing the wild thing with the beer bottle - while she is totally forgotten.
Oh man how cruel fate is.
This can actually happen for real. For Ben, the beet bottle is a supernormal stimuli
Now, this is something that can actually happen for real.
A beetle can indeed prefer that bottle.
I know, sounds crazy right?
And how many of you are now laughing and shaking his head at how stupid Ben is?
Well you should be so quick, to do that because what makes you think you’re any better?
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A supernormal stimulus is a magnified version of something we have been biologically programmed to responde to...
You see, for Ben that bottle is what we call a “supernormal stimulus" .
A supernormal stimulus is when you are pursuing fake over real.
It is a magnified version of something we have been biologically programmed to respond to.
Ben likes big and shiny bugs and the beer bottle is even bigger and even more shiny.
Yes I do admit, the beetle is pretty stupid, but while we’re all laughing at poor Ben over there, allow me to introduce another stupid creature.
Enter: John. Another stupid creature...
This creature walks on two legs, his name is John and he belongs to a species called humans.
Now, he uses even more supernormal stimuli than Ben.
Humans are designed to be social, but John has found a magnified version of it called “social media” and he spends hours on it every single day.
Social media is a supernormal stimuli because it's a magnified version of being social...
It is a supernormal stimuli and it blasts his brain with dopamine, making him borderline addicted to it.
And his social drive gets hijacked - so much so that his drive for socializing in real life gets weaker.
Humans are also biologically programmed to have a taste for high calorie foods, because back in the cavemen days, calories were not easy to find.
Junk food is another supernormal stimuli...
So, the brain's reward system evolved to make sure to reward us when we found some honey, or something similar, in order to keep us motivated to search for it again.
Fast forward a couple of million years and John is eating at a fast food restaurant every single day.
He’s getting his second supernormal stimulus right there.
Magnified calorie dense food that far exceeds what we ever found in nature.
Video games, yet another...
Then when John gets back, home he fires up some video games.
And what do they do?
Well there you have magnified status, because they hijack your natural drive to level up in life.
He plays so much that he completely loses the drive to level up in real life, because hey, the video games are so intense.
It’s easier.
And they magnify the feeling really well.
Online porn is the worst supernormal stimuli of them all...
Then when takes a break from the games he opens up an online porn site, and oh no...
There... has the ultimate supernormal stimulus.
Now, this is indeed a magnified version of something we are biologically programmed to respond to.
And it’s hijacking your natural drive to seek connection with a partner.
It is indeed the case that porn can make you lose interest in real life girls or in your partner.
Porn makes real life girls seem boring...
Millions of people all around the world are losing drive for real life partners, because of their over use of porn.
And it’s so sad to see what we are doing to ourselves in today's modern world.
Not only can porn make you lose interest in real life girls. But porn can also make you lose interest in real life...period. This is because your rewards system becomes so numb that everything in life starts to look gray and boring.
So, why laugh at the beetle when we are no better ourselves?
In fact, we have invented far more supernormal stimulus ourselves.
If porn has made your life seem boring...
And if you find real life boring you have to look in the mirror and ask yourself, "How much am I pursuing fake over real?"
And then you have to realize that the more hours a week you spend choosing the magnified version of reality, the less exciting you’re going to find the real life to be.
Alright, I hope that gave you something to think about right there and speaking porn and how porn can make real life girls seem boring, if you need help with how to overcome your porn addiction to those then take a look at another video >>Dopamine Discipline Review<< I made a while back, where I share something that has already helped hundreds of men quit for good.
This is Scandinavian Bob signing out for today.
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